Stop Searching Flaws In Others

                                                     

Throughout the human life, it is evident that man is quite in search of new things or tends to either discover or explore things which could be new to him. His the tendency to search and continue of his life resembles an unprecedented the notion, “To make our life happy and prosperous we need to have satisfaction in our lives but first of all, we need to search for such avenues which pave the path of our successful life journey”. The ability to search new things and avenues are acquired since birth as we have seen an infant readily makes him comfortable with the search process and always tries to figure out things in relevance to his observations. On the basis of his searching instinct, he gets to know about the various aspects of life which directly or indirectly are pivotal for soothing life. His orientation is someone like a trainee who undergoes an internship to get the basics of a particular field in which he wants to make his career.

The searching instinct not only acquaints us with various aspects of life but nurtures our mind relevant to the need of the hour. This nurturing is in relation to the ideas and notions which are carried by us throughout the life span and influences our behaviour to a large extent. The instinct to explore have always guided and motivated us to continue “The Expedition towards better future”, but on the other hand it has also infused a habit in our behaviours which has devastated a sense of respect and protection of other’s dignity. This character sometimes overturns our behaviour in such a way that we become a totally different personality and become a soul who often gets hatred or ignored.  

 Finding flaws in others has drawn that line for us that sometimes it is so detrimental for our behaviours which make others’ uncomfortable and brings us sheer avoidance and shame in our social circles. At many occasions it is evident that this lewd habit has made us alienated from the mainstream where people intentionally refrains us from their lives.

The habit of finding flaws in others tells about our perspective towards others and conveys about lewd and unacceptable mentality. This habit of finding flaws in others should be restricted so as to continue our core development and learning throughout our life span. It is quite understood and practised that to acquire those traits and skills, on the behalf of which we tend to learn more about different and useful prospects of life results in bringing positivity in our thinking and behaviours. Rather than wasting our time in evaluating others’ we need to concentrate on our own core development because if we want to be contemporary then we need to concentrate on each and every activity which surely achieve that distinct level of understanding which takes us to another level. Our impressions play a vital role in our acceptability among people and society. Complaining and adhering to the habit of finding flaws in others will not reap anything which can be considered as valuable for our life. Instead of being belligerent, we need to be pretty much docile and conducive for others that they could also be benefitted along with us.

Our behaviour should be encouraging for others that could be beneficial towards their and societal development. Life is not all about living in isolation but it resembles with the notion that talks about an individual’s involvement in the process of collateral development. Belittling others is not going to help us out in any sense but it is going to be detrimental for our existence within the societal framework. Finding flaws in others does not show our efficacy but tell others that to what extend we are self-obsessed and ignorant. We should concentrate on those activities which take us to the extent of a high level of learning and understanding which not only benefits us but society at large. 

The sheer level of involvement brings us those traits to our personalities which always motivate others to come in the mainstream and continue their journey of life in learning and participating. If we really want to be the charm of eyes then we need to halt us right this moment in finding flaws in others and start our efforts in eradicating that insecure a pathetic norm which we have been practising which have hurdled the process of our much need and awaited development.

Moral : "बुरा जो देखन मैं चला, बुरा ना मिलिया कोई,जो दिल खोजा आपना, मुझसे बुरा ना कोई"

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When I went searching for evil in this world, I could not find anything bad. When I looked into my mind, I found that there is nothing worse than me.

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Vikram Singh Rawat