Respect for Others

In life, we come across many events which carry either sour or sweet memories intact with a goal that demonstrates our perception regarding the term Success.

How is it to get a hazelnut pie over a regular meal? It is quite obvious and a matter of fact that we always want to relish those items that have predominance in our visions or dreams. Every one of us has got some sort of dream in life that is overdriven by numerous fantasies throughout our lives. Success is just like a metaphor that carries a deep sense which comes inherently.

We are so obsessed with the term success that we even miss the basic concept behind it. Every person has the sense to understand and judge success depending on his capability to perceive it. The term has found its way throughout the globe and still is one of the hottest concerns beyond any vicinity.

Most of We won’t retaliate to the matter of fact that somewhere the thirst to be successful has inspired us to act. Although there is a plethora of evidence that has cleared the air that the basic concept has to be personally understood in the manner it has to be. Why so? It is because the concept has inspired many but it is also true that many of us feel anxious because of not knowing the factual truth behind the state of success.

It is always affirmative to follow and practice the pragmatic aspects of things but should be done cautiously. To achieve success one will always be at the receiver’s end and try either to gather the needed resources on one’s own or seek someone who gets one to succeed.

Case -1. The seeker’s changing behavioural pattern before and after he gets the desired success. This matter seems to be common but sometimes create a void in the minds of others who expect the same decency and elegance with which the seeker approached the helper/facilitator.

Case -2. The case refers to those so-called successful people who try to belittle others by behaving in such a lewd manner which only earns hatred among the masses. This behavioural pattern is also detrimental to the minds of the strugglers who want to accomplish their work to succeed in their lives.

In both cases, the behavioural patterns are selfish as people are self-obsessed and least bother about other’s efforts regarding achieve their targets. This sort of conservative behaviour is the repercussion of the intense self-centred thirst for themselves. If the motto of lives is used and throw psyche, then remember one day we are also going to face the same sooner or later in our lives. This behaviour is beyond the understanding that how come we get attention unless we give proper attention to others? These talks could seem like sermons but are real in all senses because we live in the real world where every action has equal and opposite reactions.

The human race is always understood as the most intelligent and social race and has an added advantage over other organisms living around the globe. Is it so difficult to stay calm and decent after achieving the goals of our lives? If we behave like those for whom we complain about their behaviours then be ready to face the same hatred and lewd responses.

To reach our destinations should not be the end of the story rather we should focus on staying obliged and ready to embrace those people who are our real well-wishers. It will be more significant to celebrate our moments of success with those who admired our efforts and abide by our side even when things were not so benevolent.

Most of we have heard stories of struggles done by our elders around us. Every person talks about the adversaries he faced in his life and how he was able to make things conducive to reach his goals. We are usually surprised and mesmerize by the way they have dealt with all those acute situations of life. We idolize them and try to inculcate their deeds in our lives. This is one of the best methods to learn and save our time to make the best possible efforts in utilizing their knowledge in achieving life goals. This effort could be understood as taking their legacies ahead so that future generations could also be benefitted.

But numerous souls behave in a very different manner as they never pay respect to another person's struggle. They are so obsessed with their achievements that they always make every dint of effort in belittling other person’s effort. For them, the definition of success is so meagre that their response resembles uneducated or insane personalities who have always lived their lives in a nutshell. They don’t either carry understanding or are so foolish to assimilate a simple thing,” The struggle is a struggle”. It would be unjustified to segregate one's daunting efforts or immense moments of struggle into an invaluable wastage of resources.

Yes, every effort is indeed destined to reach its destination but sometimes due to inevitable circumstances, the face of the outcome is not in the same manner as it was pretended. So it is unjustified to judge anyone’s success on these grounds because he would have made his best efforts and would be making his best to achieve his goals. Belittling someone’s effort cannot bring fruitful results but motivating and mentoring him would definitely be a nice gesture of prudence and intelligence that is expected from all successful personalities.

 

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