Beyond our fates

                                                                                                                 

In daily course of our lives where most of the times we fail to understand what should be done to achieve happiness in our lives. Usually, what is seen either we curse or are thankful to the Almighty for whatever we got? Before talking about the way to bring happiness in our lives the first thing to understand is the realm of life. Life is all about the various events we come across throughout the lifespan, where most of the time we complain about the deprivations we face in our lives.

 Life is usually not about cursing or feeling sorry but ideally based on the way how to experience its flow. One of the main reasons for our anxious mood depends on the way our societal so-called predominant views regarding life. Our societal structure has overburden ourselves that we always consider that if something nice happens with us is because of our good luck or vice-versa. The social stigma has grabbed us so tightly that we never realize the main cause of our lives. The things have become more complicated when all the events that happen are linked to our karmas done in our previous lives.

Usually, fate is defined as events which are ordered or "inevitable" and unavoidable. This is a concept based on the belief that there is a fixed natural order to the universe, and in some conceptions, the fate is about the present, where every decision an individual has made has led them to their present scenario.

Because of this approach somewhere we have left ourselves way behind where we have to be. We never think to pave our path to achieve the realization that we can be more vocal and appreciable beyond our lucks. Today we face lots of insecurities due to which we never enjoy our lives to the fullest. Our over-dependency on our fates give rise to acuteness in our minds that we are always driven by our luck.

This dependency depletes our identity in such a way that we lose our full grip on our deeds which can bring the best of us in several ways. If we really want to be happy in our lives we need to understand the biggest truth to remove this mindset of dependency because it has paved the path for many anxieties and insecurities among the masses irrespective to any demography.

 We can understand with a small example that if someone relies on others to fulfil his needs then he will always be looking for those who fulfil his desires. In case he does not get someone then he will be full of anxiousness and insecurities. Why look for others every time?

Hard work is the basis for everything worthwhile you will achieve in life. If work is applying your ability, then hard work is applying your ability with focus and intensity to the exclusion of other possibilities. Farming is hard work because you can't take a vacation in the summer.

Source of happiness in one’s life can be determined to what extend one fulfils on one’s own. The more you are self-dependent there will be a decent probability to achieve the capability to face any situation good or bad and have an impact on your lives in such a way that it not only paves the path to feel happy but also create an inspiring model for those who are still struck with the illusion of over-dependency.

We admire and get inspired by great people. Have we ever thought why we are so attracted to their persona? The answer is hidden in their principles of leading their lives in a disciplined and self-reliant way.From time immemorial it is a universally accepted notion that dependency makes us more reluctant to face situations with a positive and precise manner. The way we try to keep ourselves in our comfort zones shows our incompetent characters. So all in all if we really want to achieve the vision or purpose of our lives then we have to break the ice ourselves and make us realise that no matter what the circumstances would be, we will bring that empowerment to our mental capabilities to make ourselves more self-reliant as to prove our mettle in the rest of our lives.

Taking into account that there will also, be a notion of destiny all around and we have to live with this then we can add a simple way to get adjusted that hard work and destiny both play a parallel role as keys to 'success'. While destiny provides the opportunity for a person to be successful, hard work is almost always necessary in order to recognize the opportunity and be able to translate that opportunity into success.

 

 

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Vikram Singh Rawat