What Meant For I?

                                                

Words would not be able to justify the sanctity of life that has been bestowed to us from the Almighty. The essence of life is always a subject of rejoicing the fare in which all of the experiences are involved to enjoy the deepness and crest of the never-ending process of the transition from one form to another. We get every single chance to experience the real charm of life in the form from making out the best of it that revolves around assimilating knowledge that is subjected to reach its culmination.

Since our childhood, we have often heard that what the purpose of one’s life is? At times it is a matter of concern that what needs to be done to understand what life’s purpose is all about. To clear the confusion certain values have been inculcated in us since childhood that always shows us the path to assimilate the realm of our life. It is quite imperative and acceptable to move ahead with these values. We have been told to be nice, docile with others and always carry a concern for them for the rest of our lives.  

Living for others always inspires us to move ahead in life and also plays the role of a stress-buster in one’s life. It’s a concern for others that keeps us motivated to move ahead to replicate our deeds to the next level as to satisfy the needs in which ‘I’ becomes ‘We’. The best part of this ‘We’ is to introduce an emphasis on others rather than self-obsessed desires which lead us greedy, cunning, selfish side of ours. In all the transition phase from ‘I’ to ‘We,’ all things go ahead with grace but struck when a feeling is generated in between and questions about “What Meant for I”.  It does not become self-centric or demanding but reflects the anxiousness of a mind who is stressed to take some more demands.

The anxiety that is developed within  an individual to question about his individuality and had a concern about the causes which have created a void space in mind which pertains to his double mindedness. Taking account of these kinds of feelings which usually develops within ourselves shows that whether we have been inculcated by the values to live for others whereas we as an individual always carry a desire to be heard and get relevant attention to our counterparts. Going into this matter which results in an anxious condition somewhere related to the burden of comparison, high expectations, excuses etc. 

 It is quite prevalent that in any society an individual is always compared with others even not having any relevance with the compared ones. At times an individual pays huge cost because of high expectations from his societal members. The more is the no. of members in his surroundings; more will be the expectation which at times succumb in between. One of the prominent reasons due to which he feels cheated when he gets excused from his counterparts for whom he has always stood by them. 

In some cases it is also evident lack of appreciation makes individual restless and compelled him to rethink about his deeds that are meant regarding fulfilling others needs. Nowadays a tendency is developing of ‘Catch and Cash’ means individuals try to cajole others just for the sake of their needs and desires. The relations have become more of a formal kind instead of heartily affairs. In today’s time, a question is aroused that ‘ Is it necessary to abide by society’s hypocrisy as it is told to continue living in fulfilling non appreciated deeds which result in disappointment and frustrations.

It’s total of no use to complain about the acute behaviour of people towards us.  Taking the right step in the direction to understand that if we really want to enjoy our lives then we need to stop doing unacceptable deeds which have always led us in great turmoil. Responsibilities and accountabilities should be taken to that extent to which we should not feel overburdened. One more thing needs to realize that we need not involve too many people in our life affairs which can lead us to lose our individuality because 'I' is also as important as 'We'. Our inspired behaviour should resemble meander which never complains and always finds direction to continue its flow and ultimately reach the destination.

So, we need to stop worrying and complaining and start living with true spirit by leaving no stone unturned in finding our true space within the societal ambience. Not only it is necessary to realize to find and realize our place because the real essence of life could be in considering and fulfilling others’ needs and wants but to great extent it also includes those individuals who have shown keen interest in meeting out the best of expectations desired by others. It would be so kind and docile to give at least a look to another person’s desires who never showed his back in realizing and maintaining a high level of participation in making others dreams come true.

 

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Vikram Singh Rawat