Take Responsibility

                                                            

Starting with a noble statement, ‘Change is always for the betterment’. Imbibing change in the same manner as required results in ease to live a healthy and happy life because it is one of the desires which has not been changed so far since we got the sense of understanding. Various laureates have put forth their views in regard to the notion that how to keep our deeds in line with the desire to live a happy life? With so many stated viewpoints on this topic, sometimes it becomes quite difficult to understand the notion in its relevant form as to live a healthy and a happy life.

Man needs a social structure for his survival in a long run due to which he has to get dependent on others. Due to which he develops a sense of dependency on others as to get his work done which results in developing a sense of insecurity and loss of confidence in his capabilities. The basic concept with which we have to adhere is the sense of understanding the fact that if we want to get rid of all our frights it is quite necessary to take responsibility for ourselves.

Responsibility is always considered as a burden from which most of us retreat because of its intense nature which requires a high level of involvement at every occasion. This intense need for participation fails to make us realize that the involvement not only makes us robust but also boost our morale which is always a need of the hour. We always look for people who help us in making our life happy but never understand how long we have to be dependent on others for the sake of a happy life. This over dependency costs us very expensive as sooner or later we become slaves of others’ pity. The irony of the situation intensifies the moment we face refutation from others to extend their help towards us. Living life on another person’s pity makes us belligerent and frustrated that at times it’s really hard to cope up with the acute situations.

The simple way to get rid of this pitiable condition lies in the fact that we should understand to become responsible for our notions, opinions, thoughts, needs, wants, desires, deeds etc. We should not leave any stone unturned in accepting that if we want to rejoice the fullness of our lives then we need to take responsibility. Taking our own responsibility is misunderstood in many ways but it is quite inevitable to avoid it for long because one day everybody has to face the aftermath of over-dependency on others. The moment we start taking responsibility, we come across our real capabilities and enhances them to that level where we need not be worrisome to get our work done. So we should take a pledge by ourselves that we would not belittle ourselves in any manner and stop looking for support from others.

It is quite simple and clear to understand the basic concept that living on the other’s pity is like living in destitute. It’s not wrong to seek help but seeking it every now and then reflects our flaws in front of others which usually bring us a lot of grief and sorrow. It would be no use of getting things on another person’s mercy because a day will come we have to face the challenge of facing the world on our own. Have we ever felt or thought in this direction that how we are going to interact and react at that moment of time. Today, this kind of discussion could seem to have irrelevancy and irrationally occupancy but the day is not too far when we will be full of regrets that why we have not taken the right attempt at the right moment of time so as to avoid this indecent and undesirable phase of life?

Taking responsibility in true sense resonates to our true mature behaviour which is usually expected from us in our lives. A true sense of being responsible could be displayed by taking responsibility for our life and deeds whichever are performed by us. To take ambush is not a very decent attempt to be taken as how much far we can hide away from the realistic thing to understand and perform as per needs in our life span. These questions have to be acknowledged and answered so as to find the real purpose of being present in this world. If we are still ignorant and feel that the comfort zone is the last foe ever then let us make a clear proposition that nothing is static in this life. We have to undertake a much dynamic way to think and perform as per the need because unless we do so then only we will be successful in bringing that level of change to our lives.

Last but not the least, living life on others’ sympathy should not be desired or practised as for a healthy and happy life. It is better to be always wise by adopting the very practical notion in life “Take Responsibility”.

 

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Vikram Singh Rawat