Live and Let Live

                                      

"Life is beautiful” is always said and desired to be. In our whole life, how many moments have we felt the same way as mentioned above? If we think for a while then most of us would have certain regrets either we were not able to live our life to that way or somebody has fallen flat in doing so in his life because of others. This agony prevails throughout our life span. As we all are acquainted with the fact that life is full of challenges and miseries with which we have to try our hands at some point in time. It costs our full time in carrying this agony as a burden for the whole life because we desire that someday a miracle will happen and everything will be inline as per our expectations.

Miracle does not happen; we need to work for that, means that if we want to live a meaningful life then nobody will come to make it likewise, we have to make every single attempt to make it happen. The mentioned notion is always desired but is never managed to practice. If we go into the deep of this challenge then our coerciveness comes in between in terms of dependency we acquire to fulfil our needs. This dependency is meant to strengthen a bond among persons but taken in another way to behold the right to control another person’s life. This notion of having control over other person’s thinking and behaviour get a boost when joined by traditional manifestations which are being under practice for a long time.

Today, people carry dual standards in terms of their thinking and behaviour. There are numerous cases where we find that persons have a difference of opinions for personal and another person’s life because the things what is acceptable for self are considered wrong for others.  It can be understood by a practical definition of wrong and right which is practised every now with then “Things are wrong until we entertain and practice them, the moment we start practising those things it becomes righteous”. Foreg: Smoking is injurious to health until we refrain from the habit of smoking; once we start then we have every single excuse and logic for our behaviour.

This type of double and weird notion is not acceptable but way beyond any logic. It brings a lot of anxiousness, disappointment and frustration which is not only detrimental but do carry a sense of need to think about how to avoid this condition of disparage.  This dual behaviour creates a gap in between individuals and if not entertained on the right time then the aftermaths are so disturbing that sometimes it goes beyond our capability to turn it back.

The simple way to avoid these kinds of miseries or drastic condition, we should follow a simple notion, “ Live and let live” means if we want to live a free life in whichever way we want then we should also think the same for others and give them due importance. Every individual has the right to choose a way he/she wants to give direction to his/her life. Life is not about individual-centric practices but also needs others to have a life with joy and spur to the fullest.

On moral grounds, every individual has the right to live his life with the free will of freedom he wants to. Freedom can be understood as a condition in which people have the opportunity to think, speak, act and pursue happiness without unnecessary external restrictions. Freedom is significant because it leads to enhanced expressions of creativity and original thoughts, enhancement in productivity, and overall high quality of life. Freedom is important because it allows us to be ourselves, and to work together while maintaining autonomy. Freedom also becomes important because its opposite is detrimental to our well-being and inconsistent with our nature.

Technically, freedom means 'the power or right to act, speak, or think as one wants without hindrance or restraint,' but in most of our lives, we actually love to enjoy this notion but are unable to do so. To every person around the globe has to face a lot of difficulties where he gets annoyed by not letting him enjoy the real charm of life because of the intense pressure of dual standards from people around them. Freedom means to have the right to be ourself. It is irrelevant to both our personal and professional lives. If we get the sense of freedom not only we can have more joy and happiness in our lives but technically will be more efficient in making out better decisions to as take our life to the next level. We should have the tendency to give due importance to the opinions and behaviour of others so that they will similarly tolerate your own. So in a larger context, we should not let another person to be deprived of his right to live his life to the fullest and make sure that if he desires to have free will in his life then there is no harm because “live free, live young”.

 

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Vikram Singh Rawat