Out of many,
the most common habit that is entertained and under practice is to complain
about what is not possessed or desired to be. This complaining has become a
part of the game means we practice it in our daily routine. If not wrongly
stated, it is becoming an integral part of our personality which is not a good
sign in any respect. Today things have become so fast-moving that at times it
is not even easy to realize that somewhere we are unable to maintain the pace
or run short of sustaining ourselves in a long run. This shortage has always
dragged us into the world of desperation which always results in complaining.
Some of us have developed this tendency in such a way that even in good times
we complain or unable to stop complaining.
As every one of us is fully aware of what life is all
about? Always wasting our precious time complaining is not a good idea to stick
upon rather it has to be removed from our behaviour as soon as possible. But
before thinking of its removal one has to figure out the main cause of this
development because unless it is done then only things undertaken to nail it
out could be possible. The reasons could vary from person to person but one of
the prominent reasons which can be considered in deteriorating our mental
capabilities is to ‘live either in
past or future’. Every second
soul out of us is totally in ignorance that we have developed this tendency of
complaining without knowing or tried to be known about this habit which will be
converted into misery someday. Talking about miseries is not a thing of the present
but it’s a legacy (mock) we are taking along.
Today one of the easy tasks is to point out to others
that “you know that the things which are happening to them are just because of
the deeds they have performed in their times”. If they were ignorant then what
are we? If we are still entertaining that need not to then what the difference
between them and we? It is understood through various events that talking and
complaining about things is not going to reap anything fruitfully. Then what
needs to be done raises a big question in our minds? The basic and very easy
method is to live in the present time. Why so? If not wrongly mentioned then
what we complain about?
Either we discuss that in yesteryears it was not like
that or what will it be like in future.As we are self-proclaimed educated
gentlemen then why we are unable to restrict ourselves in embracing the habit
of complaining? If we consider ourselves better than so-called
yesteryear people then why behave the same as them so if as per our claim we
are better than them then why our behaviour still carry the same habit to
complain in the same manner(living in past or future)? Questions are many and
many to come but the main thing which could act as a panacea to this kind of
problem is to ‘Live our
present’.
I seek in a positive sense that living in present gives
us a sheer opportunity to get rid of all our miseries because whatever the
deeds which were not so fruitful in past can be rectified in our present. One
more thing if we feel that things were in a much better way in the past then we
can learn from it and continue our good work in the present time. This kind of
attitude should be developed at any cost because if not done right away then
things will be in much worse form. It is our present that gives us an edge to
perform deliberately following all our needs, wants, and desires. To complain
about things simply projects our cowardice and timid nature not to perform.
Also in our present time, we can indulge in such
activities or tasks which will act as a strong foundation for our future. Many
intellects have already stated this and with a bit of understanding around us,
we can realize properly that what we are going to lose if tasks are not
performed at present. Whatever we get in the present is an outcome of our
yesteryear’s deeds. The past of today was someday present where our behaviour
was not in the right direction. Can’t we consider today’s deeds an investment
for our better future? Things are always better for those who act responsibly
in their present and if they lack something then they are always ready to learn
from whatever or whom so ever is available in developing their abilities so
they do not come under any fallouts.
Complaining about things is simply an excuse that can be
seen in abundance in our behaviour. If we can’t behave rationally then why we
are ecstatic about being the top-notch ones? If we want to be the achievers in
our lives then we need to leave this lewd habit and take a U-turn because as
soon as this habit of the complaint will be left the desired relevant changes
will be seen anywhere, everywhere no matter which part of the world we dwell.
So timely awakening will have to be in our priority always as things will
always be better for those who carry an intensified form of readiness to act
and react accordingly to the need of the hour.
उठ जाग मुसाफिर भोर भई, अब रैन कहाँ जो सोवत है,जो सोवत है सो खोवत है, जो जगत है सोई पावत है
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