In The Pursuit Of Happiness

                                                           

In our life, one thing which disturbs us a lot is why we stay at the side of loss. Loss? Yes, Loss. It is so because we usually say that there is a dearth of happiness in life or happiness is lost from life. This idea of disappointment allows us to go deep into desperation and leave us in the area of sorrow and grief. Things do not stop here as either we complain or curse the fortune of not letting us enjoy happiness in our life.

The man has always developed a tendency to accumulate everything that he encounters throughout his life. This desire for accumulation is not appropriate always because if we want to grow then we should know what needs to be accumulated and what needs to be left?

Happiness can be defined as the joy of achievement and the thrill of creative effort but in most of the events, we lack this because our whole concentration is on what we have not achieved? This sense of ignorance has deeply penetrated our thinking process and somewhere we have lacked in making our best attempts to achieve the joy that excite us.

Today, things change unexpectedly and are so fast that we get perplexed and lose those tendencies which have been required to sense the essentials which are needed to rejoice in life to the fullest. We usually either complain of not having the privileges or lose that excitement to achieve the desired.

Many of us always feel insecure in small events, incidents and circumstances. The level of insecurity sometimes rose to an unexpected manner that things seem to look impossible from there. It would be a wastage of time if we adhere to these sorrows and insecurities as we can’t reap anything fruitful from such behaviour.

Our foes in this direction are never liquidated in providing us with a conducive surface to build a tough building of excitement, joy and happiness. Talking and getting disturbed with small losses and dearth is not a wise decision to be taken. If we feel it’s ok to disturb ourselves in minute things then why not rejoice fun and joy in small – small things.

According to Buddha,” Happiness does not depend on what you have or what you are. It solely relies on what you think.”  It is the onus of every one of us to think and behave in such a way through which we can find every single chance to fill our life with zeal and happiness.

One of the factors which have an inverse effect on our minds to expect some big achievement to get happiness. How can we so ignorant to understand the simple notion that every big thing comprises of small-small events? Our rationality takes a back seat in realizing this fact that not to waste our time only in making it large. If felt in the right direction, every single achievement big or small has got its flavour of joy and happiness.

Our whole concentration should be on finding and experiencing a real taste of happiness in every event we come across. In life, it is a usual thing to experience both facets of life that talks about bad and nice experiences but it should not be considered negatively as they teach us a practical lesson to understand the gist of life which always carries numerous circumstances.

As life is about collecting memories and find a way how to learn bringing joy and happiness to our lives. Things always become acute if seen only hastily and ignoring its true facet. People complain about what and how to get happiness? They ask and look for the perfect mantra but they usually ignore the basic that if try to develop an interest in every work we do and in every work we intend to do.

This notion could seem too old fashioned or kind of obsolete but remember one thing the basics never change with time. Developing an interest always results in gaining the fierce like liveliness in life and we experience that joy and zeal which leads to a great sense of happiness.

The acuteness in any form would not be desired or expected but has an opportunity to define our path of learning that excites us to reach that level of joy and happiness that can give true meaning to our lives. Finding interest is a way to come across various unexplored areas of our personality and pave a way to be happy and wise throughout our lives.

It seems to have difficulty in finding and develop an interest in all the things we pursue nevertheless it’s  a very useful tool to assimilate all the essential to make a difference which is conducive to fill our life with desired happiness which not only brings smile on our faces but is capable to bring smiles to many who are directly and indirectly associated with us. Complaining about things could be an easy way to escape but has its repercussions that are inevitable in our lives.

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