Dying Relations

                                  

On earth, the most interesting and adorable thing to be cherished about is its inevitable quality of providing a conducive environment for the life existence. The earth is a habitat for numerous species out of which humans are one of them. Considering multiple factors in the evolvement of humans, relationships are one of the most legitimate and omnipresent factors irrespective of any species present on this lovely planet. Because of the bonded nature of relationships with others, we have been so successful in maintaining pace with the evolving progression.

We become literally enthusiastic about entering in the 21^st century but have we ever questioned about our readiness? It states because there would be loads of challenges ahead in our lives. One of the disturbing challenges would be to find out the real causes of losing a happy and enjoying relationship from our lives. Any relationship factors a lot in our lives as we feel much compatible and comfortable in a continuously changing environment. The relationships always support us to be keen towards our responsibilities and accountabilities. We share a nice sense of togetherness in the presence of healthy relationships.

But in current times we are dealing with some acute challenges in regard to deteriorating relationships in our lives. It’s quite alarming that if we do not have a concern to entertain this emerging problem then be ready to face the repercussions. It is not always so easy to a high level of prowess to mitigate problems in our lives. One has to indulge thoroughly to figure out the real face of the problem and then try to find the solution. Unless a high-intensity work deliberation is necessary to avoid nasty aftermaths.

Humans have always created wonders throughout the globe but somewhere have become so selfish and ignorant in maintaining healthy relations in life. This condition is not only detrimental but quite alarming to stand against this evil which is getting nurtured under our deliberate ignorance. ‘self-centric approach’ is one of the reasons which may be seen as a foremost culprit due to which this kind of condition has arisen. Today we have developed a tendency to live for ourselves, where we leave no place for another person’s feelings, needs, wants and desires.

To fulfil the individualistic approach we are even ready to forget our morality which has always enlightened the path of progression and added values to our lives. Today our value system is getting weak day by day which is creating havoc or panicking us to a great extent. Not only we are suffering due to this development but it is also detrimental for the society at large. It is not confined to certain boundaries but now it has escalated its reach throughout the world.

It’s the irony that due to some hypocritic practices in our society some persons become light headed individuals who are usually tend to compromise their moralities just for the sake of their biased and self centered ambitions. The decent approach “live with and for others” is somewhere overthrown by recent perspective  of “live for I and me”. If someone questions about this development then gets overruled by saying that now we need to change according to the changing world. Another factor which adds fuel to this condition is the rise of instinct to satisfy egos where one person expects another person to compromise his aspirations. The person with selfish concerns is even reluctant to make adjustments as compared to another person who gets suppression to make compromises. 

It makes least sense to ignore such moral values which have been so benevolent throughout the development of mankind. Is it of any prudence to ignore others just only to satisfy our egos? Have we gone to that state of minds where only “I” exists  ”We” does not ? What would it going to prove in snatching another person’s ambitions and succumb him to the imposed coercions? Making hue and cry does not guarantee for happiness unless it’s seen beyond self obsessed notion. Due to this self obsession individuals have lost their basic instinct to examine the correctness of their belligerent behaviour

We always envisage for a better life progression but can’t have a humanistic approach that shows our non-relying mindset to exploit not withstand the true form of development. No development is resolute in nature unless done with empathy and concern for the people who have always extended their support in making us fulfil our dreams. Even animals know the significance of living together with other members of their communities. Have we gone even below animals? The concept of modernity does not come from ignoring those people who were always involved in providing a spur to our dreams because reaching your goal without your love ones threatens the sustainability of the desired state of achievement.

 

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Vikram Singh Rawat