On earth, the most
interesting and adorable thing to be cherished about is its inevitable quality
of providing a conducive environment for the life existence. The earth is a habitat
for numerous species out of which humans are one of them. Considering multiple
factors in the evolvement of humans, relationships are one of the most
legitimate and omnipresent factors irrespective of any species present on this
lovely planet. Because of the bonded nature of relationships with others, we
have been so successful in maintaining pace with the evolving progression.
We become literally
enthusiastic about entering in the 21st century but have we ever
questioned about our readiness? It states because there would be loads of
challenges ahead in our lives. One of the disturbing challenges would be to
find out the real causes of losing a happy and enjoying relationship from our
lives. Any relationship factors a lot in our lives as we feel much compatible
and comfortable in a continuously changing environment. The relationships always
support us to be keen towards our responsibilities and accountabilities. We
share a nice sense of togetherness in the presence of healthy relationships.
But in current times we are
dealing with some acute challenges in regard to deteriorating relationships in
our lives. It’s quite alarming that if we do not have a concern to entertain this
emerging problem then be ready to face the repercussions. It is not always so
easy to a high level of prowess to mitigate problems in our lives. One has to
indulge thoroughly to figure out the real face of the problem and then try to
find the solution. Unless a high-intensity work deliberation is necessary to
avoid nasty aftermaths.
Humans have always created
wonders throughout the globe but somewhere have become so selfish and ignorant
in maintaining healthy relations in life. This condition is not only
detrimental but quite alarming to stand against this evil which is getting
nurtured under our deliberate ignorance. ‘self-centric approach’ is one of the
reasons which may be seen as a foremost culprit due to which this kind of
condition has arisen. Today we have developed a tendency to live for ourselves,
where we leave no place for another person’s feelings, needs, wants and
desires.
To fulfil the individualistic approach we are even ready to forget our morality which has
always enlightened the path of progression and added values to our lives. Today
our value system is getting weak day by day which is creating havoc or panicking
us to a great extent. Not only we are suffering due to this development but it
is also detrimental for the society at large. It is not confined to certain
boundaries but now it has escalated its reach throughout the world.
It’s the irony that due to
some hypocritic practices in our society some persons become light headed
individuals who are usually tend to compromise their moralities just for the
sake of their biased and self centered ambitions. The decent approach “live
with and for others” is somewhere overthrown by recent perspective of
“live
for I and me”. If someone questions about this development then gets
overruled by saying that now we need to change according to the changing world.
Another factor which adds fuel to this condition is the rise of instinct to
satisfy egos where one person expects another person to compromise his
aspirations. The person with selfish concerns is even reluctant to make
adjustments as compared to another person who gets suppression to make compromises.
It makes least sense to ignore such moral values which have been so benevolent
throughout the development of mankind. Is it of any prudence to ignore others
just only to satisfy our egos? Have we gone to that state of minds where only “I”
exists ”We”
does not ? What would it going to prove in snatching another person’s ambitions
and succumb him to the imposed coercions? Making hue and cry does not guarantee
for happiness unless it’s seen beyond self obsessed notion. Due to this self
obsession individuals have lost their basic instinct to examine the correctness
of their belligerent behaviour
We always envisage
for a better life progression but can’t have a humanistic approach that shows our non-relying mindset to exploit not withstand the true form of development. No
development is resolute in nature unless done with empathy and concern for the
people who have always extended their support in making us fulfil our
dreams. Even animals know the significance of living together with other
members of their communities. Have we gone even below animals? The concept of
modernity does not come from ignoring those people who were always involved in
providing a spur to our dreams because reaching your goal without your love ones
threatens the sustainability of the desired state of achievement.
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. The decent approach “live with and for others” is somewhere overthrown by recent perspective of “live for I and me”
ReplyDeleteUntil we are agreed with above lines and stand together ❤ to support each other we will survive but we can't nourished our self and society
"I leads to illness whereas We leads to wellness."
ReplyDeleteI I I I I.A single letter word most selfish word.Most devastating word proven sometimes.Everything is revolving around this word(iphone ipod iPad).Jokes apart but true fact is what We can do I cannot.
ReplyDeleteAttitude of I is somewhat okay but Arrogance is not so satisfactory.
We need healthy relationship in our life...it's our responsibility to create a balance between our relationship
ReplyDeleteUnfortunately it is reality that we are going to that state of mind where only "i" exist "we" does not and ha aapne problem ko bilkul sahi address kiya that is "self centric approach" but one thing i know for sure if we can put our ego aside and says yes i made a mistake, i apologize and i am correcting my behaviour that simple statment may be helpful for building strong relationship.
ReplyDeleteJust wow. In the present day scenario, this is something we need to remind ourselves constantly that whatever heights we attain, there was/is always someone who has been there through it all *Our Family*. Kudos 👍
ReplyDeleteFood for thought ✅🌸
ReplyDeleteso true... Its just 'I and Me' for everyone these days.. Ironical !!
ReplyDeleteBeautifully Written
ReplyDeleteIt actually hits the home ground...
ReplyDelete*The concept of modernity does not come from ignoring those people who were always involved in providing spur to our dreams because reaching your goal without your love ones threatens the sustainability of the desired state of achievement.*
ReplyDeleteHeartiest thanks for your wonderful comments.keep supporting me
ReplyDelete👌👌👌👏👏👏... Keep going brother
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ReplyDeleteIts true.... you explained it beautifully 👍👍
ReplyDeleteIts very relevant in modern times! Need of our times!
ReplyDeleteग्रेट brother
ReplyDeleteOur culture gives us " aayam nigo paroveti gadana laghu chetasam uddar charitranam vasudhevkutumbakam"
ReplyDeleteWe should follow afrosaid mantra in our life as well as societal norms for betterment in our relationship
Keep writing
With best regards
Great bro..
ReplyDeleteTrue words.
ReplyDeleteIts true... 👍 👍 👌👌
ReplyDeleteBeautifully written. It's today's reality. Hats off to your observation and putting it into words.
ReplyDeleteRelationships can be the most beautiful thing that happened to one or can be the most burdened one, all depends upon wat kinda person you are. Thumbs up for the post.
ReplyDeleteI need to talk, itna sab asaan nahi hai.
ReplyDeleteLakin your thoughts awasome as you are. Keep writing and keep motivating.
Thank you Sir
Very well said, Absolutely True...
ReplyDeleteWhat is great brother
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