Partnership Versus Companionship

                                              

In any society, we have certain beliefs, opinions, thoughts, rituals on the basis of which societies work. It’s another matter whether any society has gone in the right way to develop itself or not. As we humans have generated a tendency to live within it and somewhere deliberately or not by choice have accepted those norms or rituals which can’t be determined or justified at any cost. Out of various activities, one inevitable activity that plays a vital role in our daily life is business, this term is seen and understood to profit generation but somewhere is subjected to fulfil our needs. As we all know that an individual can’t be so well versed that he can perform and achieve the required level of achievement solely, so to achieve the required he enters into an agreement known as “Partnership”.

The basic concept behind the term Partnership mentions an agreement (written or oral) between the two parties where they unanimously agreed upon certain terms and conditions in which they work closely with others so as to achieve that level of sheerness which will make them achieve the requisites. Initially every the agreement is seen in this direction but slowly and steadily it goes somewhere else where partnership becomes just a namesake term or formality. Partnership in a business is closely dependable on the trust and honest behaviour of the parties that have been entered into an agreement on their will without any hassle. Now, this type of tendencies has also found its place into our relationships within the societies. 

In current scenario no. of cases have compelled us to understand another facet in which the relations are seen as social agreements in which two individuals come together on agreed terms. The relationships are becoming more prone to an approach where there is short-sightedness in realizing a fact that relation does not work on the business module.  There are various instances that have bolstered the whole concept and insisted us to rethink about the changing pattern in our relationships. Today relations within families are considered as melodramas of daily soaps telecasted over our TV sets. The impact of these melodramas is not wise in any case because we see a lot of turns moil in relationships which can be overcome but do not go that way. It won’t be justified if marriages are not considered under this scenario of self-centred dilemma where marriages are becoming just a day affair of celebrations like Wedding Anniversary and   Karwa Chauth.

If we ask this question in this direction then we will sense a shift from Companionship to Partnership. The basic definition of marriage leads to having a companionship rather than partnership. This unknowing and non needed shift is quite harmful to one of the most sacred relations present in our societies. What is understood that partners are intact because of their profits whereas companions live for their counterparts forever without any terms and conditions? The spouses are meant to be in a deliberate attempt to make out every single step which makes their relations more and more robust which is not only good for them but even their families are always intact. Companionship has got its own charm and subtle behaviour where both enjoy the essence in the form of trust, togetherness, empathy, generosity and above all the feel of support and concern for each other which is not mostly seen in partnerships.

Usually, every relation comes across ups and downs of life but can be overcome with the spirit of trust on each other. The beauty of marriage is alive to the point both spouses realize to give up their selfish or self-centred desires. In some cases, impressions from our milieu are not realistic but have depleted our sense to differentiate between real and reel. In the era of information technology, this greed for the perishable world will not be fruitful as materialism is meant to be used not to stick with it because to have a happy and wonderful journey which is called as the life we have to consider the sanctified concept of companionship as a partnership is incompetent in a long run.

It is the onus of every couple to safeguard their relation from indecent desires, thoughts, opinions that comes from milieus as it is quite evident what seems to correct and attractive may not be so accurate in their forms and meaning. We should also take a deep and needed purview on unwanted and unrealistic wishes which usually crop up due to world of wrong prejudices and impressions.

Last but not least , before making our relations a one day show off like celebrating Wedding Anniversary or Karwa Chauth, do realize the sacredness of the events which excites us to keep our promises or vows which we took with each other on the big day. Every day can be Karwa Chauth or anniversary, if we keep always our self, realized oaths in our minds that were taken and promised to keep forever.

“ Wish you a Happy Karwa Chauth”. God bless you all.

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