Personality Development (A Myth or Reality)

                                                

In the era of modernization one thing that has become so fast that everyone has the need and the desire to achieve those level of traits on the behalf of which he can maintain a spontaneous growth in his personal and professional life. Things have not been as easy as it pretends to be and make a diversion in some cases where things have not been taken care of properly. In the time of fast and consumer-oriented the market, there is always a need for those individuals who can initiate and sustain pace according to the need and desires.

In accordance to achieve prowess, we need to get those traits which really help us to get our targets within the stipulated time and in an actual manner. If we really want to leave an impact on others which are always needed to get our work done then it is desired to achieve that personality trait that helps us to achieve culmination and sustain ourselves in a long run. In this high time, everything we come across often relates to the specifications which are needed to get the things on board and in a realistic manner. If one desires to be competent enough then one has to specific with his deeds which are to be in line with the targets. It is obvious and proves to be realistic that inlining effort with the goals always gets us where we most desire.

In simple words, Personality can be defined as the sum total of all our intrinsic and extrinsic traits. In regard to personality, around the corners, we heard so many coaching centres, institutes etc which lauds for developing our personalities through their PDPs (Personality Development Programmes). Usually, they talk about removing our weaknesses which anticipates in the wake of our personality development.

Thumbs up!  To prove them accurate they invest a lot of money in advertising their claim of developing our personalities. In most of the cases, the results are not at par as people feel deceived and curse the relevant coaching centres and institutes and conclude that it’s quite a myth that personality development exists. In some cases their claim could be right but if we try to understand another the perspective then we will come to know as we humans have certain weaknesses and traits by birth and it would be wastage of time to counter those weaknesses because it takes a lot of time and daunting efforts in doing so.

If we really want to see our personalities to carry those desired traits then we need to invest our valuable time in an escalation of inborn traits that can overshadow our weaknesses. It is quite simple to understand the need to invest our significant time and efforts in the path of reaching our destinations. It would be of great prudence that we stick to a rational plan which not only takes care of our time and efforts but is always fruitful. For most of us talking and countering our weaknesses brings a lot of hesitation, disappointment, frustration as we have usual tendency to avoid seeking our weaknesses.

A lot of hue and cry has been developed for personality development but it’s a reality for those individuals who make their effort in accordance with precision and wise decision whereas a myth for those who are unable to seek and practice the needed efforts and are always perplexed. Seeking an escalation in the qualities and promise to take us in those areas of our personalities which were not known to us to date. We can understand this concept with ease as great personalities are always followed because we only see their charming qualities but least bothered about their weaknesses.

We cannot reach that level of expertise without taking a step in that regard. We have to make every single attempt in acknowledging the basic concept of “Help yourself”. If we want to enjoy every moment, then we have to get advancement in our thinking where we are always ready to demonstrate the best of our capabilities. Put aside the most predominant notion from our minds that things happen automatically. They do happen but we have to spare our valuable time in extending our support in the direction to develop ourselves.

To get that level of the excellence we have to be in that state of involvement and participation which helps in achieving those skill sets on the behalf of which our whole thinking the process gets valuably inline to the need of the hour. This approach brings us a lot of opportunities for us to understand and think likewise the manner which is always needed and has a high intensified priority. Unless we do then we can say in every aspect that we are quite able to acknowledge and achieve that level of sheer development in our personalities because development is for the whole not for a particular area.

So “Early we start early we get”, this notion is actually conveyed a clear message that things are done on time and in righteous direction then nobody has the capability to match us in any manner.  

 

 

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