From all corners we usually hear the hue and cry for the sorrow or
grief we carry throughout our lives. Mostly we regret about our personal loses
or for non-achievements in life. It’s a usual tendency to complain but to a
certain limit it is not annoying but if it exceeds to higher percentage then
not only individual losses control on himself and later disturbs the balance among
the people’s lives around him. Living a regretful life makes an individual
behave like a coercive person who has to live like a slave of circumstances for
the rest of his life. As the regrettable life intensifies itself it tends to
control his mental ability and results in making him a pessimist.
It’s a universally proven fact that regrets always ruin the
efficacy of individuals in a long run. We have to face the ups and downs of
life as we are born as humans. It’s not possible to get rid of the stress as it
is a natural phenomenon. The best way to continue our journey is mind readiness
to face any sort of situation or circumstance. In today’s fast-moving world the
needs are literally changing with every single second which put a strain on us
to perform. There are individuals who consider this need to upgrade
as a burden and fall prey to their prejudice.
Why can’t we think to go beyond our foes and carve a special
place for ourselves in near future? Living like every second
individual who always feels cherish in discussing his yesteryear’s good times
and tries to hide the flaws he did in later
years. As we have been born with mental intelligence and vibrant
positive attributes, why can’t we use them as our core strength to fight
against the evil which always makes us retreat? As heard from ages that we have
to continue our journey of life irrespective of the results. Our performance
level somehow depends on the level of diligence we involve in our tasks.
In our lives, we have to stand firm in imbibing the notion of “finding an opportunity in every loss". This notion not only makes us robust but enthral us with the real charm of never-ending learning and performance. At times we don’t get desired results in our professional and personal lives because we are always intimidated with our losses. As we all know uncertainties are quite prevalent in our lives , it can also excites us to find every possibility to come up like a winner.
In context of our personal lives, either we grief for our not so
happened relationships and losing someone permanently . We always make an
excuse to put our self in solitude due to which we put our
personal and professional accountabilities at stake.
Why can’t we envisage another aspect to our
losses? Losing someone is not an end of the road. Why can’t we
think in a better way to continue their legacies whom we have lost? If they had
been our love ones why we have to moan for them for the rest of our lives. Why
can’t we practice a life of taking their positive memories and attributes along
with our deeds which not only makes us feel comfortable but drag us from our
deep dug pits of sorrows and grievances. The nature has
bestowed us with prudence which makes us capable in maintaining our
temperament according to the changing environment. The adapting quality should
be developed as to make ourselves comfortable
and performing even in hard times of our life.
Time has come that we have to stop falling prey to our
insecurities and losses because if we continue to live like this we will be
deceiving not only ourselves but also mother nature who has sent us for a
unique purpose. So it’s on individual whether he wants to be
remembered as an inspiration for many or always cursed as non-performer or
loser. It’s of no meaning to repentant in our later years of our lives. So we
should develop a sign of inspiration to fight against all odds and stand like a true human being who refused to succumb to the evil thought which generally
gets developed in our minds. Every soul on this planet have certain traits
along with flaws so in a true spirit we should concentrate to raise the bar in
accordance to achieve high sense of understanding and feel that the Almighty
has been so generous to give us opportunity to find our path of success in our
lives.
Note: Losers
do not leave mark winners do.
Best of luck folks. 😊
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Nicely written....its hard to forget and forgive but we have to find a way to survive.
ReplyDeleteContent has connected to heart. And at the same time motivated me to find good in everything.
ReplyDeleteWorth reading.
Really amazing and value adding your blogs are ...keep it up and keep sharing
ReplyDeleteWonderful article with an optimistic approach towards life...
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Yes right. We should take good things along with us. Sometimes extra sweetness could be harmful.we should learn from circumstances whether good or bad -kailash
ReplyDeleteHello Vikram Sir, You have written very beautifully about life, its ups, and downs, opportunity, and how we can fight with failures and disappointment. I have a question to you that, are we wrong if we can expect a better future from our child, wife and loved ones ??, Parents, who were happy when they have a child, what they will do when that child will not behave as per their expectations? We connected people with emotions, we are Indians and our culture and behaviors make us different from others. Thanks, Yogesh Kashyap
ReplyDeleteVery Nice and motivational
ReplyDeleteLosing is not the end of the road" this line hits really hard and truth of the millennium also losing always brings new opportunities in everyone's life. Very inspiring sir🙏
ReplyDeleteYes, very good article and inspiring! Everyone should imbibe this mantra in their life.
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ReplyDeleteThis is in fact the Need of the Hour..... Your grip over the subject and language is quite commendable.. God bless you 🙏 Beta... Harekrishna
Thank you for letting me believe in this wonderful notion. Keep it up.
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